Why So Many Families Are Moving from California to Tennessee in 2025
You’ve probably noticed it too. It starts with one family. Then a neighbor. Then a coworker. Before long, it seems like everyone is quietly packing up and leaving California.
In 2024 alone, over 338,000 people left the state, and here in 2025, the trend is showing no signs of slowing down. While headlines might try to simplify it by blaming politics or policy, the truth is much more personal.
As a family who made the move ourselves, from Southern California to Tennessee, I want to offer a more honest, human look at why so many people are choosing to start over in the South. The truth is, most families aren’t trying to run from something.
They’re reaching for something better.
It’s Not Just About the Money (But That Matters Too)
Let’s be real. California is expensive. And it’s not just home prices anymore. Grocery bills, gas, insurance premiums, utility spikes, and surprise tax hikes have made day-to-day life feel overwhelming. The average home in many parts of California is well over $800,000, and now families are seeing homeowners insurance rise by 100% to 300%, or being dropped altogether if they live in fire-prone zones.
Gas prices? Another increase just hit July 1st, taking the state gas tax to 61.2 cents per gallon.
Even families with high incomes are asking, “Why are we working this hard just to stay afloat?”
But Deeper Than Dollars... It’s About Life
One couple said something that stuck with me:
"We can technically afford to stay, but we’re not happy. We don’t feel safe, we don’t have time, and we’re always exhausted."
That’s the heart of it. For so many families, this isn’t just a financial decision. It’s about mental space, emotional margin, and the freedom to actually enjoy life.
What We Found in Tennessee
When we moved to Tennessee, we weren’t just chasing cheaper real estate. We were chasing peace.
We didn’t even realize how tense and fast-paced everything had become until we left. In Tennessee, there was room to breathe, space to slow down, and a community that felt like home. We traded traffic for porch coffee, constant hustle for Friday night football, and burnout for balance.
It wasn’t easy. We left behind family, deep roots, and lifelong memories. The hardest part? Saying goodbye to our daughter and son-in-law. But something amazing happened on the other side of that decision. Our relationships grew stronger. Our visits are more intentional. Our lives feel richer.
So... Why Tennessee?
Why are so many people moving from California to Tennessee specifically?
✅ Slower pace of life
✅ More affordable housing
✅ Strong sense of community
✅ Access to nature, lakes, and small-town charm
✅ Four full seasons (yes, even bugs and fireflies too)
✅ The ability to breathe again
It’s not perfect. No place is. But for thousands of families, Tennessee offers a lifestyle that feels more aligned with what matters most.
You’re Not Alone If You’re Thinking About Leaving
If you're feeling that tug, even if it's just a whisper, you’re not alone. You’re not crazy. You’re not being dramatic.
You're just paying attention to what your life is telling you.
We created a free resource to help people who are exploring the idea of relocating:
Download your free relocation guide here:
👉 https://mason-signaturehomes.com/relocation-guide
It’s full of practical info, honest insight, and the kind of encouragement we wish we had when we were just starting to think about it.
And if you're already exploring the idea, I’d love to help. We’re licensed in both California and Tennessee and specialize in relocation transitions like this, because we’ve lived it.
Final Thoughts
Leaving California isn’t just about leaving a zip code. It’s about choosing peace over pressure. Simplicity over stress. And connection over chaos.
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t the move. It’s giving yourself permission to even consider it.
If this resonates with you, you're not alone. And you're not stuck.
You just have to start asking the question:
What if life could feel better than this?
Sincerely,
Lisa Marie Mason
